It may sound foolish that don't try why I am saying so even 🤔 Whenever you make coffee for yourself or just cooking for time pass it tastes great but when you need to make it for your mother it's all ruined up ,,,, it might have happened with you to not only with coffee but also with other things .
WHY IT HAPPENS
if you ask me according to psychology when we enjoy the work or the input we get awesome results/output
ENJOYING INPUT = AWESOME OUTPUT
but when we focus on output we don't stay in the present thus can't focus leading to ruin the output
FOCUS ON OUTPUT= BAD OUTPUT
It applies in both personal/professional life in office/school etc. If you enjoy your work you'll start loving It soon cause of the appraisal you'll get and in friendship if someone wants to stay they'll if they don't they'll not ,,,, so you're not begging someone's attention or love they're giving it to you.
PASSION/FRIENDSHIP IS SOMETHING IN WHICH YOU ENJOY THE INPUT