TW: rape, suicide, self harm, and other things
1: if you try to bring up something that has NOTHING to do with the current topic, please just don't bring it up in the first place, holy shit
2: don't threaten my dog, I don't care how "funny" you think it is, I will hate you for all of eternity
3: no kys or self harm jokes, for the love of everything
4: do not sexualize my family members, it's weird
5: if I have underage characters, asexual/aroace characters, or characters that look way too much like kids but aren't, DO NOT SEXUALIZE THEM
6: "Jokes" about rape, sexual harassment/assault, and/or threats of such will not be tolerated here. I don't care how funny you think it is, you are genuine scum.
7: if I don't know you, or if we haven't spoken too much, don't just say random shit outta the blue and expect me to be completely fine with it; just don't go too far, you know?
8: I myself have anger issues, so I apologize in advance if I get upset about something with you. I can't promise it won't happen again, but I can assure I will put it in my best effort not to
9: don't make fun of others' trauma please, thank you, you're a miserable human if you do
10: Slurs are fine, but only if they are reclaimable. If you cannot reclaim the slur, hush your mouth.
11: Tone tags....use tone tags. If you don't know what those are, it's basically stuff like /srs, /j, and other stuff like that.
12: Don't go and tell everyone under the sun I made you upset and then try to use it in an argument. If I didn't know I made you mad, I can't exactly help you
13: Do not use intoxication as an excuse to disrespect my boundaries. If you did while under the influence, once sober, you should have the maturity to apologize for such behavior.
14: Don't go victim blaming, no one likes that
15: So help me lord, if you complain about how many books I make, go away. It's a reading app, it's almost like I can grow an audience through books. Besides, maybe pay attention to the board and I wouldn't make as many books!
16: Don't invalidate someone's trauma and triggers, that makes you look like a piece of shit. Something might not trigger you, fine, but don't make fun of people who are triggered by it.
17: I don't want shit to do with politics. I think all political parties suck, leave me alone.
18: Certain crime jokes are FINE, but don't go overboard with the shit; like terrorism, do not joke about that here.
19: I don't have the mental capacity to deal with certain things past 10:00 EST, so don't come to me with a bunch of drama shit until twelve hours later
20: Speaking of drama, if it has nothing to do with me, I'm probably not the best person to ask
21: Please don't start venting outta the blue, you have to ask me beforehand; I don't mind venting, but random venting? No.
22: Unless I ask of if we're having a conversation about it, don't bring up your kinks and whatnot. If we're joking around, that's fine, but if you're being deadass, I need you to STFU.
23: If you randomly start role playing without any explanation or asking first, I can't promise I'll be happy with that. Remember the Wonder situation? The grown ass man who sexually harassed me for no reason and labeled it as "role play"? YEAH.
24: Istg if one of you bastards call me special or some shit, imma lose my MIND. I know I'm neurodivergent, no need to remind me.
25: After some rather horrific experiences, if you're friends with/following/ supporting the following accounts, get off my dear page.
I will update this book every time I need to add a new boundary, but this is the basics for now. If you think this is "too long", "consider it some type of application", or do that stupid ass "I'm not reading all that", sincerely fuck off. What do you mean a list of a person's boundaries are too damn long!?