Solving A Hurdle

This chapter is written by : aestheticlogophile

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Insecurity[n]:Uncertainty or anxiety about oneself.

Insecurities are something that almost everyone in the world faces.This population can be divided into three main parts:

#1-The I don't care squad:These are the people who look at themselves and know they aren't perfect however they live with it bravely.

#2-The 'wannabes':These are the people who put their whole time and energy hiding their 'imperfections' thus trying to become people they just aren't.

#3-The so called superiors a.k.a bullies:These kind of people pick on others' insecurities and make it worse for them just so that they can give off the 'I'm really perfect vibe'.These type of people add up to the negativity in the crowd with this method of theirs or as I call it, the 'hurt other,look good mechanism.'

Now believe it or not almost everyone in the world will have a reserved place in atleast one of the three categories and truth be told, you might too and so do I. This thing which we call insecurities is just a play of mind and a human tendency to have.So you are not weird in any way, trust me.

In today's world, people are so hell bent on having a beautiful face, perfect eyebrows, being picture perfect, having great boobs, a really flat stomach, long legs, having a thigh gap, a great butt and what not, like dude you seriously have more problems than presidents and prime ministers of countries who are trying to get rid of massive world problems like poverty!

So what if I don't have a perfect body?So what if I don't look like a freaking model? It's never going to matter if you are assured in your own skin.One doesn't get the best of friends because they are beautiful but because they have a personality that is worth befriending.If you stand up with your head held high just the way you are then people have no right to judge you.

Everyday when you look in the mirror and you shouldn't feel,'Oh look those thick thighs again' instead you should think,'These babies can give strength to beat the shit out of someone'.So remove the mindset that some part of you is not good because you have to accept that you can't be perfect but you can always think of the positives of having the 'imperfections'

You have scars?They are proof of the inner battles you have been through.You have dark skin?guess what?You have a very less chance of having wrinkles when you get old. You have small boobs?You can wear whatever the hell you want throughout the year.Its just the optimism you need in life to carry yourself through.You don't need to hide yourself behind that thick layer of make up where people see lies.(I'm not saying make up is bad so please don't be offended.I love make up too but this is for the people who apply make up, not for the fun of it but for hiding their face in the pretty mask.)

Be confident and love yourself for who you are because everyone has a unique personality.So next time someone picks on you for an insecurity then you can just ignore them and show how much you believe in yourself.Once they have realized that you aren't getting bothered by their statements then they will just stop.Finally, help others to go through this as nothing gives more joy then helping someone in need.

So, live life the way you want because you are beautiful in your own way.Be yourself, love yourself and believe in yourself!

I hope you use these solutions to help you deal with these situations so you can live a positive life and not let your insecurities stop you from enjoying life. Thanks for reading. If you have any questions, do feel free to ask.

Thank you for trusting us,
The #HAP Team :)