Advice Column

I came out to my mom a year ago today about me being a lesbian. Problem is, I'm starting to think I'm not lesbian after all because, I'm not sexually attracted or attracted period to either gender at all. I want the feeling of loving someone and being loved.

My mom said one day when we were in the car: "In my HONEST opinion, I think you're Asexual or Pansexual. You aren't attracted to anyone like the other kids are. With the fact that you really despise guys, I think your almost forcing yourself to, because I know you, you love to feel love and for someone to love you, but hey, if you come to me at 16 and say I'm lesbian, then I'm okay. If you come to me dressed as a complete dude, and I have a feeling you will, I'm fine with it. I just don't think you're lesbian, but I don't care if you are, ok? You can come to me about this stuff."

My mom thinks I just like the feeling of love, which I do, but I feel like I should like someone. After thinking about it I do feel that way, but I'm still confused because sometimes I feel a bit of attraction to girls who have the "emo" style hair.

Also I found myself have a bit of an attraction to a guy who have the "emo" look. I'm pretty confused. Do you guys have any thoughts on this, my mind is confused with a whole bunch of stuff jumbled together in my mind and I can't take it. Thanks in advance for the advice. (: