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Question of the day.

How does one deal with the distractions of teenage life?

Oh! The teenager life man, where in, it all takes a complete 360 turn and everything remains the same yet seems so unfamiliar. And oh boy are there, distractions in these years of our life.

However, the question was about how do we deal with these problems.
My only answer would be - know yourself. As long as you yourself, do not know what you're aiming for or feeling a dislike towards you're not going to be able to tell it to others and others won't be able to understand you. There comes the time when you're like what the hell am I probably even doing? What do I want to do? How am I so indecisive or so under productive? Why am I not able to be like that person or why do I feel that person is too much like me? The main question should always revolve around your growth, healing and betterment and not at what you're not good enough at or what you see within others. Appreciating people and their talents is an extremely positive thing but that causing inferiority complex within you might not be under your control but is definitely affected by how much power it is given to it by you. If you keep watering those thoughts with self-doubt and add the manure of demotivation you will get stuck in this vicious cycle of feeling trapped but unable of taking any action. These years are one of the best years, true but they aren't the easiest years to be in. As our hormones need to be balanced in our body, our decisions, our mental health, emotional well-being, spiritual ideologies and / or practices need to be balanced too. And now after knowing yourself I'd say believe in yourself. Look at yourself as this being who wants to spread light, maybe you don't know where but at least you know you don't want places to be dark; as a person who might not know what the final destination of their life is going to look like but you're sure to live through every bit of the journey of reaching the destination.

And now many of you will question but how do we know what we want?
The simple answer is try. Try new things, explore new territories, expand your comfort zone, try things you never have and hone skills you've always admired. These are the years you have to practice hit and trial. These are the years you can make mistakes and know what it is that you want to do. Yes, we can be successful at 60 years of age but we need to work hard, put our ideas, weave our thoughts, dedicate ourselves from the starting years itself. People who you hear have failed, fail at execution not at trying. So, try.

One more problem we face is regarding peer pressure. It could be as subtle as buying branded stuff just because your 'friends' do or it could be life-threatening such as substance abuse [Alcohol, drugs etc.] The only solution here is to stay level headed and know what real friends actually are. They aren't the ones you feel insecure around, they aren't the ones judging you for your clothes or accessories. Friends, real ones who will uplift your personality not your bills. The ones who know what you're comfortable with and will help you explore and expand but will never push to into bad stuff. When we say it is better to be alone than with the wrong ones it isn't just to make you feel good. Well, it is one of the reasons but the main reason is some of us hold on to some toxic relationships for years and once we let go we realize it was never meant to be and so wasting the best, most productive years of our lives there wasn't worth it. It was never going to be.

At last, teenage years are some of the best years. You'll be embarrassed to fall, then you'll learn to fall, followed by learning to get up and either run this time or take it slow both of which are absolutely fine until you're happy with it.
So, know that these are your years and don't let anything or anybody take them away from you.

抖阴社区r's note -

Hey everyone.
I hope you're all doing good.
And now you must be wondering where was she all this while and now she's returning out of the blue as if everything's fine.
Well things happen in life you know. And I was away dealing with those but now here I am wonderful readers.
And don't worry, I do have my posts prepared for the upcoming time (about a month, at least) so yes, keep expecting posts for now.

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- lifieee.