Hi it's me again.. XD
Soooo as you know, both of my guy friends had admitted to liking me and I wasn't sure which way I was going to go. They both know that the other likes me and are good friends... They are still waiting for me to tell them my decision.
I'm pretty sure I know who I'm going to go with, but how do I tell the other guy that I'm not choosing him? And how do I tell him that and still remain friends with him?
Thanks again :)
-Don't want to hurt anyone
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Dear don't want to hurt anyone,
Well that's good that you know where your heart is at :3 Okay, well you just tell him in the best way you can. Something like.. "So I talked to ________ and I told him my decision. But now I need to tell you what it is. But before I say anything I just want to tell you that I really care for you and I don't want to hurt you but it's hard not to because you both like me... I still want to be friends with you.. but I just can't be more than that..." Or something along those lines. If he really liked you he isn't going to be okay with this but eventually he will get over it. There isn't really a way to tell if you might hurt the person you choose but you just have to be gentle with it and step the guy aside to say it. It's no use in leading on a guy that you aren't interested in. Make sure everything is going with you guys after too and then check again after a few days after the guy soaks it in and hopefully has excepted it also. But I really hope that everything goes smooth :3
Alex :)
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