Ask Alex ~A wattpad Advice Column~

Dear Alex,

I don't wanna seem like one of those girls who think 'oh I have it so hard' when I really don't but ....I don't kno ill just tell u my problem lol. So, theres a few guys that used to... well not buly me but just ignored me in middle school. I knew who they are but we never ever talked. So this year, in highschool they all of a sudden started noticing me and talking to me. I don't know if its because were in the same class (but we've been in classes together before and nothing lol) or if its cuz they think Im more attractive (cuz I have changed a lot) or if its because im more social. Im not sure if you can help but... I don't really understand why and.......... im at a loss cuz I don't even kno if I shuld associate with guys like that :(

-Sincerely Girl At A Loss

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Dear Girl At A Loss, 

Well I can assure you this problem of yours is normal. Sometimes you don't get noticed before like you used to because you just weren't.. not to be mean or anything.. noticed. If you have become more social and stuff then that could attract more guys to you and make you noticed more. I think that you have every right to talk to them or even maybe ask them if they even remember you through middle school. Some people just don't have as much courage in middle school as they do in high school to talk to other people. Your group of friends changed through out your life so don't think too much on it C:

Alex