Ask Alex ~A wattpad Advice Column~

Hello, again. Heheh, well, I kinda need advice again....It seems your great at giving me and others advice, third times a charm, right? Okay, point is; (two things, mostly) Well, I am kinda....insecure about my body. Like, wicked. The only thing I like about myself is my back dimples. Ha. I have, well, I call it "chub chub" meaning, puppy fat. I exercise every single day, and I try not eating as much, which hasn't been that bad lately but I can't get any skinnier. Others tell me I shouldn't worry cause my weight is proper for my age but I don't believe it....I don't know what to do about my, "chub-chub" or puppy fat. Can you help?

Also, I just got a boyfriend recently, which I am SUPER happy about, cause I've liked him since fifth grade, but he doesn't really talk to me much. We only have lunch and after-school together but he still doesn't talk to me much. And when he does talk to me, it's only for like, about five minutes. And he talks to other girls a lot, and when he does, I get super jealous. I try not to get jealous, but I can't help it....What should I do?

 -Yet Again, "Nervous 抖阴社区r"

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Dear Nervous writer, 

Hello c: Yes, always the charmer cx Well I don't really know what your age and weight is.. so I can't really answer that properly.. But I can say that only a doctor can tell you if you are of right weight for you height and age. What I would recommend though is that instead of eating not much I would eat more food that will energize you and keep you full through out the day. You need a lot of nutrients in your body and if you go healthy it will help a lot to get rid of the puppy fat.. I think that's the only thing I see wrong that you are doing to lose the fat. Eat wiser foods then eating little because I myself *chuckles* have baby fat.. or just fat in general and I eat barely ANYTHING. So it's more of what your putting in your body then how little you eat. 

Wow.. well that's not really a good relationship to be in.. I think that you should ask him or talk to him about this and share your concerns for it as well. I feel like communication is a huge factor in a relationship and communication doesn't have to be verbal but also with body language and all that. He is your boyfriend so he's supposed to be a huge part of your life, meaning you guys should talk and hang out more and the fact that he hangs around with other girls more isn't a good sign.. he should want to spend more time with you. So yeah, just talk to him about it and see what's going on with that. 

I hope this helps hun, 

Alex