Ask Alex ~A wattpad Advice Column~

Hi again. :)

So, my problem right now is this girl friend of mine. ._. We both liked anime, and until yesterday, she asked me for an anime that is as sexual as the one she's watching. It's mild sexuality,  and she's turning 12 this year.. So I did, and just recommended her an anime that everyone's talking about on FB. I checked the anime I recommended, and oh my gosh, it's so gross! I mean, it's so harsh! :( I almost puked. But somehow, I'm scared that I'm corrupting that mind of hers. I told her to not watch it anymore, but she wouldn't listen! Oh my god, if her family knows about this... I am so dead! I'll probably be kicked out of school, disowned by my parents and how pessimistic can I be? How do I remove this guilt? ._. 

-Pessimistic and Worried

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Dear Pessimistic and Worried, 

oh my... well that's a predicament... well firstly.. why did she even ask for one that's sexual? I would think that if she wanted to find one like that she would look it up on her own. But you only did this because she asked you to and you didn't know that it was that sexual. So don't worry about that on your part. The fact that she knows what the anime is now. She had a chose of watching it or not and she chose to watch it. So, if anything, she's corrupting her mind and not you corrupting her even when you told her about it. I don't even understand why a 12 year old would want to watch anime with sexual stuff in it.. I mean when I was 12 I was watching cartoons and Disney e.o But hey won't judge v.v But all in all. If her family finds out, your not the one watching it. You won't get kicked out of school or disowned by your parents for this. If anything they should be questioning her. Idk where your from or if that's actually what people do there.. but it just seems to extreme just for telling a friend about a really sexual anime show or something.. Just take a breath and just ask her why she would want to continue watching it. Then tell her your reasons on why you think she shouldn't watch it. And if she still watches it. Then that's all on her and not on you. Don't worry about someone elses decision. She didn't have to watch it but she did v.v 

I hope this helps you. 

Alex